Dard jaata hai’… muskurakeDekh le dekh le… aazmaake…
Apne saaye se… tu nikalkeDekh le dekh le tu badalke…
Have you ever noticed how when you ask a lil girl if she wants to get married when she grows up? And you get reactions like, “Nah…am not going anywhere leaving my parents’’…you find it real cute. But just as she grows up, Life pops its head to indicate the beginnings of Phase 2 where this perspective takes a 360 degree turn and she eventually leaves them….a lil anxious, a lil pensive but largely fanciful of what lies ahead...
Among the many wonders of the inexplicable human nature ,this is one of the most fascinating…according to me, no other situation better defines ‘A woman who is the epitome of strength in odds!’ Having experienced it myself like many others, I know for real that no matter how unflustered we may look, it takes a mighty heart to actually give up the comfort zone, the support system created by your family, where you have cozied up all these years, to move on and explore what lies beyond…Am amazed how we women do it! If I can take my example here, am living so faaaar away from everything dat defines HOME…..am in a new country, amidst new people and new challenges yet I find myself getting up everyday to a new dawn, creating a lil world of my own…learning, tripping, rising, learning, tripping, rising, living in constant HOPE but ever losing heart.All in the process of creating a home away from home. My own HOME !
The initial steps into this new phase is really intense, but what can make the ride smooth and unforgettable is a very old and effective booster called LOVE. Yes LOVE is something that gets you going, when the goings get tough. U can live in constant HOPE but you cant keep going if there is no LOVE. And this comes from nowhere but your mate, with whom you embark on this meaningful journey called Matrimony’
Does ur love for your parents get any lesser? No, it just grows stronger with time and before you realize you have created a whole new world where every object of your affection resides with peace.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment